Full Time RV Living or Volunteer Homeless?

I did this whole journey with intent tucked into every corner of my camper and mind. So many people view this as giving up everything to live in a camper. And yes, that is true, and reality is it’s freeing and a bit scary at the same time.

‘I’ve always wanted to do that’ is what I hear most from people I’ve met. “Why haven’t you?” I’ve asked.

We stop ourselves from doing the big and crazy things in our lives all the time. Why? Fear. Fear of failure? What if this happens? What if that happens? And what if it all works out?!

Intent is a key factor. Living your life with intention. Your focus on what needs to be done so you can thrive in this lifestyle, becomes very real. If you’re busy worrying about the what if’s – well then that’s what you’ll be facing. Instead, become very focused on what needs to be done every day. Whether that’s making sure the camper is all set for the day, food stocked up, maps planned out, or sitting down and writing; and working to help others.

Lack is a mindset that holds you back. I’ve been guilty of focusing on what I don’t have rather than what I do have over the years. What I learned is that working with what I have is far more powerful to create from – and far more gratifying.

If I look at life in an RV as a homeless person, then I’m looking at it in with a mindset of lack. Instead, I see it as home, free from conventional ways of living, free to move and explore and discover new places, people, and possibilities.

Our mindset is a powerful force. I’m not saying think flowery positive thoughts and it will all work out. Have the mindset to be clear on what you want and set your intentions, and take the baby steps daily to get there. The beauty of creating what you love in your life is it’s all up to you. Don’t let fear stop you.

Daily gratitude to God for all of his blessing keeps me on the right path, and keeps my life full. Helps me face my fears, and follow through on my intentional journey.

What big crazy thing have you always wanted to do? How would you feel if you faced your fears and set your intentions to do it?!

Happiness.

Today is my birthday, January 5^th. (Yup, just getting around to post this!)  Some will call. Some will forget. Some will send a quick text message. There is happiness in being remembered, but that isn’t how you gauge happiness. True, others can make you feel happy, however they are not the ones in charge of your happiness. Nor should they be.

To be truly happy, you have to know what and who makes you happy. Finding that is a  journey in itself, and looking within you will find most of what you’re looking for.

Happiness isn’t a when, or a person. ‘When’ this happens or ‘when’ I get here I’ll be happy. If you’re not happy in the here and now – it ain’t going to happen later. Be happy in the present day, you can take that with you anywhere any time!

Married twice, so I know you can’t entrust others to make you happy. It’s not their job or anyone else for that matter. It’s your own damn job to be happy. When I said ‘who’ makes you happy, I meant to be with those who you find happiness with. Surround yourself with others who lift you up. Bring you joy. Share life’s moments that are meaningful. Bring conversation to the table. Gives you a sense of belonging rather than just fitting in.

Bernee Brown talks about the difference between belonging and fitting in. When you try to fit in, it becomes a us or them, left or right, choose a side in order to be apart of a group. You find yourself having to change or adapt to one group in order to ‘fit in’. Whereas belonging feels more like coming home. They’re your people, your tribe, your community who accept you for who you are. And being yourself allows you the opportunity to be free.

Allowing yourself to be happy is on you too. It’s a choice. Everything may line up to pure joy, but if you don’t allow yourself to accept happiness into your life – what are you telling the universe? You’re not worthy? Why not? We are after all, a spiritual soul living & having a human experience. We are all deserving of the best life we can create. It’s okay to be happy!

Doesn’t cost a damn thing either!

A question that people keep asking, “Do you regret doing this?”

I hate this question. It has only been 5 months since I began this journey. Do I miss certain things from having a house? Sure, a big bathroom. My awesome office. That’s just stuff and convenience. I miss talking to my grandkids, and my kids. But we could talk more on the phone. I still love them all, and always will.

I don’t regret the adventure. The people I’ve met. The places I’ve seen. The time I’ve been able to take a breath. Reconnecting with family and friends I wouldn’t have been able to do had I not taken this trip. The spectacular foods, beaches that call me by my name…

How can I regret any of that? Maybe I could have done other things with the monies. Bought another house somewhere else. Spent it wiser, traveled less, played it safe.

I think the risk I’ve taken to do this, fears included, get me out of my comfort zone so that I can allow myself to grow and heal. Allison told me I needed love; and I deserved that. Maybe that’s part of this grand adventure too. Even if it’s just to learn to love me.

This is a journey of many things from stepping off the hamster wheel, to reconnect, reflect, find my belonging home, challenge my brain, regain my strength, find my power…a true-life adventure. Gators and all.

If you’re asking me if I regret it, maybe it’s because you cannot imagine this adventure for yourself. And that’s okay. It’s not your journey and it’s not for everyone. It’s scary for some. It’s a risk to give up your home and live in a RV and travel around the countryside…

‘What if you fail?

Oh, but what if I fly?!’